And so it begins...
My first blog. I have always wanted to start, but now is a better time than any to write down what's on my mind. And, to give everyone a little insight into my thoughts, feelings, adventures and experiences.
As cliche as it sounds...this is "the good, the bad, and the ugly" truth about life in my twenty-somethings. xo
Oh boy.... this is definitely the time of year when I get the most homesick. When the trees are suppose to be changing colors, when the snow is suppose to start falling, when the weather is supposed to be much cooler (by like 40 degrees)...yep, this is when I really miss home.
This time of the year always reminds me of my high school days. When life was much easier and time went by slower. I miss the days when all of my best friends and family and I were together, worrying about our comp papers that were due before Christmas break and wondering who we were going to cheer for at our rival football games.. after all, we were friends with boys on both teams :) I miss driving to the local "Mini-Mart" to pick up a couple cups of cappuccino before my first period, always making sure to get one for my BF Kelli Jo (did we even have Starbucks in our small town then?). Anyhow, I was going through old pictures last night and I still can't believe that it has already almost been a decade since we were all in high school. It doesn't feel like that much time has gone by. But, then again, I take a look at what we have all been through (the good and the bad) and realize how much has changed over the years.
Sometimes I just wish we could all go back....
xo C.
Ah yes... and the countdown begins, only 16 more days until I am closer to 30 than 20.. oh boy :)
Today is all about setting goals and asking for exactly what you WANT. Not your average, every day goals (like… lose 10 pounds by December or get the house painted before it snows), I mean your ALL time, what you’ve dreamt about for years, what you think are unattainable type goals!
Many of you have probably read or at least have heard about the book “The Secret.” If not, I will give you a little taste of what it’s about. I discovered “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne in 2006. Some believe in the power of the secret and others think it’s a crock, but I live by it. Prior to my twenties, I had always been extremely goal driven. Whether in school, dance, jobs, friendships, or relationships, I always aspired to achieve. In 2006, I was 21 going on 22. I was young, a junior in college and in a serious relationship, that wasn’t exactly a dream come true…(hey, we all learn from our mistakes, right?). Anyhow, even in my early twenties, life was confusing. I thought I had my future all planned out…. graduate from college by 23, engaged by 23-24, married by 25, kids by 26-27. Like most of us at that age, I thought the guy I was dating was the man of my dreams and that we would be together forever in my own made-up fairytale (key words "made-up"). I thought for sure I was going to be some wealthy Sports Medicine doctor or Physical Therapist, etc. WELL… life didn’t quite happen as planned and boy am I glad that it didn't! Everything happens for a reason, and although it may be extremely hard to deal with at the time, it all works out for the better in the end (it could just be the Universe adjusting things in your life, so that you can have what you truly want, read on, I will explain). The events in my early twenties definitely paved my path to where I’m at currently, and I’m very grateful. It was during these years that “The Secret” really became a bible for me. Something I carried around with my every single day, something I read before I went to bed every night and something I still read every time I need a reminder of how to stay focused on what I want in my life.
“The Secret” is about asking for what you want, believing in your dreams and then receiving them. It’s about positive thinking and positive energy. In the beginning parts of the book, the author explains how “the secret” works and tells its readers to write their own specific goals down. Long-term, short-term, large or small. So… I did. In 2006, I wrote down what I wanted SPECIFICALLY and just found that list the other day while I was going through my journal. That’s when I realized how powerful “the secret” really is. Whether it’s because I read the book, fate, or a higher being, I had achieved every single goal on my list, except for 2. I like to think it’s because I visualized myself achieving my dreams, I truly believed that I was going to receive every single thing on that list and I did. I’m still working on 2 of them, but they’re materialistic anyway. Someday, I will receive those last 2 (a boat, which I don’t know if I want anymore and to pay cash for my very own, brand spankin new Range Rover, not a Range Rover Sport a Range Rover! – that I still WANT!:) ).
To sum it up, I wrote down my goals, what I wanted specifically and I asked for them, I then visualized myself receiving those things or that life every chance I got, I did not think about how long it would take to get them or how I would get them, and eventually received it all. Here are a few things from my previous list (keep in mind, this was when I was still in college): I want...
1) A great job that I will enjoy, while making a lot of money such as a Pharmaceutical Rep, Medical Sales Rep or Distribution Sales Rep for a company like Red Bull. Right out of college, I got an Outside Sales Manager position with the most well-known company in the world, and I love it!
2) To have significant other who loves me unconditionally for who I am. I am now with the love of my life, for real this time. He loves me unconditionally and is beyond what I could have asked for.
3)To be with someone who appreciates me and the things I do. And that he does. Not just with words, but by his actions too.
4) To travel as many places as possible with my significant other. Just this year we've been to Omaha twice, Park City, California, Boston, New York, Colorado and Wyoming (family first). More to come :)
These are just a few things that were on my list. Four years ago, I never knew I would all of those things and more. (Here is a picture of Shane and I in Cancun last year. Thank you for the amazing trip Coca-Cola!)
This "you create the world in which you live in" concept has been around for centuries. Now, all of the theories and philosophies are in one book and I encourage everyone to at least read it once! It will change your life. It changed mine. Check out this link www.thesecret.tv, go buy the book, read it and start writing down what you really WANT (wealth, health, happiness)! Then..pay it forward.
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams"- Eleanor Roosevelt
xo. C
p.s. This blog is dedicated to my sister from another mister and my brother from a different mother..lol. YOU know who you are!! I'm back! Sorry it's been a while :)
Nothing too crazy today, just a little update...first off..this week has been insane!!!
But, I had the most wonderful weekend with some of the most amazing people! Words will never describe how thankful I am to have the friends that I have in my life. It's extremely hard to find "true" friends and I'm extremely blessed to have those that are closest to my heart! You all know who you are, through thick and thin, from the East Coast to the West and everywhere in-between, we will always be Buds For Life! Thank you for everything! Please know that I will ALWAYS be there for you!
Wow...I can't believe that it's already Friday. That's another thing that I have noticed as I've gotten older...time goes by WAY too fast! Sometimes I take that for granted and need to remind myself to "live in the moment."
Throughout my "twenties" (so far), I have realized that I'm pretty spontaneous. I like taking risks and believe in taking chances. I have taken a gamble on love, friendships, jobs, etc. But, now that I'm in my mid-twenties, these risks seem to be getting more serious and harder to seize. Unfortunately, no one can predict the future. So, we are all on our when making decisions. We can ask for advice, but in the end, it's all up to the person that it is going to effect the most...you, us.
Betting on odds in my mid-twenties means I am an adult now. I have been out of college for almost 3 years and there is no way of getting around the fact that I am officially "on my own." Which does give me a sense of self-worth and pride, but it's a little scary at the same time. I have been extremely blessed with an amazing family who have supported, guided and shaped me into the woman I am today. And, I want to prove to them that I can do "it,"whatever that may be, on my own. Because the most rewarding feeling in the world is making my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, brother and sister proud.
In order to accomplish my goals, it looks like I need to "take the bull by its horn" and do it without someone holding my hand. This entails....TAKING RISKS and learning from my mistakes.
"Opening yourself to change. It is the accepting of the need for change and it is taking the behavioral steps that will result in change."
"Pursuing the required actions despite the fear that it will affect others negatively, resulting in their efforts to make you feel guilty about taking such action."
"Hoping your circumstances will improve as a result of your personal sacrifice, but making it anyway."
"The ability to ignore your need for other's approval in order to take the most appropriate action for you."
"The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing and is nothing."
As I sit here and reflect on how I arrived here, at this moment in time, a lot of the steps I took were steps of uncertainty. Every decision I have made have all been made by taking risks. Subconsciously and consciously. So...that should make all of my future decisions easier, right?! Absolutely not! But, it does give me hope that no matter what, everything happens for a reason! We can't be afraid of failure, if so, we'll never get anywhere. With that, I leave you with this... (those of you that know me well, know how much I idolize this icon :). xo C
Michael Jordan "Failure" Nike Commercial
I have a large bucket list... meeting Michael Jordan was close to the top: I will never forget this day. Check.
